contact is never that rough in the beginning. 

you can always mail me directly at dysphoricgrrl@hotmail.com .

i'm on many mailing lists. most are via egroups. the discussion ones are as follows : 

boi_fancy / lurve bois? we do, too
brianmolko / our sweet prince
britboynews / obsess much?
coldrain / existentialism + intelligent woe
cultofmolko / you guessed it
gothy_glam_bois_and_grrls / you've one guess
headway_discussion / heavy melodic action
jonathanrhysmeyers / the quintessential adonis
jrm: jonathan rhys meyers
lehnart / lenny's art
molko / more of the same
mysweetprince / no comments from the peanut gallery
9inchnails / the fabulous mister reznor
ninformacion / lo mismo, otra lengua 
radiohead_alliance / kick + squeal + trade
strangeways / lots of anglophiles
uberverbositie / mine, but now dormant

you can also find me in one-to-one messaging systems as the following:

 aol instant messenger :  blueamerickan
 icq : 51048150
 msn messenger : dysphoricgrrl
 yahoo messenger : fleshmechanick

if i am in a chat room, it will most likely be : #placebo.

my username on napster is uberwomyn.